Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Still Cooking!

I'll be 32 weeks pregnant this week.  The weeks have been flying by! Except for a brief episode of preterm labor at 24 weeks, things have been relatively uneventful and I've been feeling great. The babies are getting bigger! Last week they were 3lb 9oz, and 3lb 14oz already!  After this week they should each gain about a 1/2 lb per week. They didn't mention how much I'll be gaining per week! Ha!

We named the babies over the summer.  It was hard so hard to decide! We knew we wanted our boy to have Thomas' initials.  We had so many beautiful things that were monogrammed for Thomas that he was never able to use, so it will be really special to use them for our second son.  We finally decided on Turner Andrew Behm.   We named "her" Emmaline Allen Behm, so she shares her big brother's middle name.  They each have something special from Thomas!

Everything has been great with the babies, but with our history and my advanced maternal age (34!) we get to go to the perinatologist frequently for appointments.  As TJ says, I have an ultrasound addiction, so I don't mind at all!  It has been fun to see our babies' different personalities from the beginning.  At our 20 week anatomy ultrasound Turner was flailing around like a wild thing, kicking his sister in the head the entire time! It is a little disconcerting that I can't even protect her from her brother in the womb. We kept having to come back to measure different things because he was moving so much.  Emmaline, on the other hand, had her ankles crossed and her hands up under her chin.  It was like she was posing for portraits! Her head kept bobbing as her brother kicked her....poor thing!

They have continued to show their funny little personalities.  She is breech, and her movements are more gentle, he is vertex and kicks me in the ribs all day! She also has the hiccups all the time!  Turner's head is really low and he is facing my back, so we aren't usually able to get any pictures of his face.  Each week i leave with a whole strip of pictures of Emmaline's face, and one token picture of Turner's private parts....its all he's ever willing to show off!  (I predict he's going to be a mess!)

This pregnancy has already brought us so much joy, and it has brought so much healing to my heart.  I still find myself a little guarded though.....I don't know that I'll ever be able to just assume everything will be ok.   We aren't out of the woods yet from a prematurity standpoint, so each day they are still in my belly is a good day.  Its hard not to worry about all the potential complications that could arise if they were born early.  I am honestly surprised each week that I'm still pregnant, and so grateful.  Overall this pregnancy has been a joy and a blessing.   It has been so much fun to prepare for the babies!  I guess for me its not going to seem "real" until we bring them home.  I know it is going to be absolutely crazy with twin newborns at home, and I can't wait!

"He will once again fill your mouth with laughter and your lips with shouts of joy." Job 8:21, NLT


  1. I am so happy to hear you and your babies are doing so well! I (along with a few co-workers) have been following your blog since your sweet baby boy was born. I was in FNP school at the time, and my pediatric professor shared your story with us. For the life of me, I can not remember her name, but I am sure you know who it is. I feel the need to share this with you because, little to your knowledge, you and your family were the topic of many of our work conversations, and late night updates via text messages. I find it quite interesting how The Lord has worked in your family. He took Thomas from the world, and is now blessing you with two babies. I work with a doctor who also lost his 2 week old baby girl to a heart condition last year. He and his wife are now pregnant with twins. It is a humbling example of how our Lord is in control. I wish your family the very best! I can't wait to see pictures of your sweet babies.

  2. I can't tell you how happy I am for you and TJ. Your entry made me teary-eyed. I'm so glad your pregnancy has gone so well, and can't WAIT to see pictures of your adventures with Turner and Emmaline.
    (I trust she will get back at him for all those kicks in the head)

  3. Love this and so happy for you!! Praying for the babies and for you as well!!! Such a blessing!!

  4. God is always faithful to redeem--in very different ways. I'm glad that He is redeeming in this way for you. Prayers for a smooth and beautiful ride, and so glad that they are getting so big!!! Love from the Roberts family. We are cheering you on!

  5. Praying for continued good health to you and the twins.