Friday, December 2, 2011


A graveside service celebrating our precious Thomas's life will be held at 11am on Saturday, December 3rd at Bonaventure Cemetery.  All are welcome.

"Yes, we are fully confident,  and we would rather be away from these earthly bodies, for then we will be at home with the Lord." (2 Corinthians 5:8 NLT)


  1. Our hearts and love will be with you sweet friends. Love, Stacy and Angie

  2. Praying for you and TJ.
    - Jen and Joey

  3. Thinking of you today, Melissa and TJ. You have been through so much, I cannot even imagine the depth of your sorrow. Praying for His peace, comfort, and mercy today as you celebrate your sweet boy. Wish I could be there too.
    Philippians 3:20-21
    But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body.

  4. I have been praying for you today. I know it's an unimaginably hard one. My heart is heavy for you. Though your Thomas is whole, healed, healthy, and rejoicing in the very presence of Jesus, you now have to trust your broken hearts into His care. I am praying His peace, kindness, love, hope, comfort, and mercy over you. And while you wait to hold Thomas in your arms again, he is safe and sheltered in the arms of Christ, who is loving on him until (and ever after) you get there.

    Blessings and many prayers going up on your behalf,
    Kathryn Apinis

  5. I wish I could give you a big hug, and am so grateful for the knowledge that you are surrounded by many many loved ones who are hugging you today. You and TJ and your families have been on my heart constantly. Prayers for the healing of your broken hearts and prayers of thanks for baby Thomas's beautiful life....

  6. Lindsey WestendorfDecember 3, 2011 at 5:06 PM

    Dr. Behm
    Today was a beautiful service for Thomas. You and your family will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
    The Westendorf Family

  7. You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers today and over the past couple of weeks. Sending lots of love your way. xoxoxo Middi

  8. Dr. Behm,
    We pray for God's peace for you, TJ and your family. Today's service was beautiful. Your unwavering faith has touched me deeply. Holding you up in prayer,
    The Sanders Family

  9. We just heard about your loss. Our prayers are with you.

    The Pinto Family
    (Joana, Joel and Charlotte)

  10. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your baby. You have been wonderful to my girls, and I appreciate the care you have always given them. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    Jennifer Walsh and the Burke girls

  11. Dear Melissa- When I met you on our cruise I so much knew you were such a lovely genuine person but I never realised how much you followed 'Our God'.
    Here in Scotland I so much share your beliefs and your faith, and for me your faith has been an added inspiration to mine.
    You and your beautiful baby have brought me to tears and I'll never forget this journey I have shared with you.
    My Mum died four years ago this Christmas and there's never a day I don't think about her, miss her, or thank God for such a beautiful Mum and friend.
    Your Baby Thomas was only with you for two weeks but I know you will never forget the time you shared with him.
    I feel I can't say 'Merry Christmas' to you because I know your heart is breaking, however from having read every post you have made I know you feel honoured to have given birth to your lovely baby boy and to have shared his fight and journey until he was back safely in the arms of our Father , so I guess what I want to wish you this Christmas is 'Peace' with your thoughts of Thomas and the 'Owls'.
    I send you my love and my total admiration of you and your family. You are very special people.

    Pat and Billy Veitch.